A think a more important “gap” is the resentment that builds up in many relationships where the man wants more frequent sex than the woman (with the qualifier that the woman is “fully orgasmic” and does achieve orgasm just as frequently as the man).
I would like to see a round table discussion here on Medium about that. Does the medium platform even support a way for writers to share credit for round table discussions? If not, that’s a great idea and I want credit for it. Followers of writers who focus on the topic could be sent a topic announcement and then do ranked voting to determine who would be on the panel (or panels if the interest demand was high).