Check out the dating site, Chorus. It’s founder has written quite a bit about it here on Medium. I enrolled but haven’t done anything there yet since I plan on moving to Pasto, Colombia as soon as covid allows. I get emails from the site about online mixers they have set up and reading your article I thought it might be fun for you. The basic concept is that you make and/or refer friends to and/or in the site and they help screen your matches. I haven’t really done anything there yet, but like I said the thought just struck me that it might be better suited to your personality then the run of the mill dating sites. Buen suerte querida!